"The most important work you and I will ever do will be within the walls of our own homes."
- Harold B Lee-
a family (from Latin: familia) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity or co-residence.
however, there were some family could not control and solve their family problem and decided easily to get divorce. don't they think of other people? children, father or mother in law? is divorce is the right solution for family problem? no, i totally not agree. There must be many solution for this and if they had tried all this, i then agree for it. As a counseling student, i and my friends were given so many cases to solve and most of teenagers or adolescent who get involved in criminal or social problem comes from those who had a family problem. so, to cared of harmony life and happy family, we have to strengthen our bond of love. Family is the small and easy unit to be control compared to a villager or society. So, if we able to have a happy family, we will be a part of peaceful citizen and live in harmony life.
Matan Abu Daud
حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ عَنْ مُعَرِّفِ بْنِ وَاصِلٍعَنْ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ دِثَارٍ عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَقَالَ أَبْغَضُ الْحَلاَلِ إِلَى اللهِ تَعَالَى الطَّلاَقُ.
Artinya: Kami (Abu Daud) mendapatkan cerita dari Kasir bin Ubaid; Kasir bin Ubaid diceritakan oleh Muhammad bin Khalid dari Muhammad bin Khalid dari Mu’arraf in Washil dari Muharib bin Ditsar; dari Ibnu Umar dari Nabi SAW yang bersabda:”Perkara halal yang paling dibenci Allah adalah perceraian.”
Maybe the reason why you can’t seem to find time to spend with your family is because you don’t think it is that important. Maybe you have other things that you think are higher on your list of priorities. Here are just a few reasons why family time is important:
1) You need to build deeper relationships within your family
2) You need to instill family values in your children.
With the startling numbers of marriages and divorces today, your children need to learn the importance of family values. Chances are, your children will mimic the exact behaviors you exhibit towards them. If you are an absent parent, they will be the same to their children in the future. More often than not, children often display worse behaviors than were shown to them. Spending family time together will build a sense of worth and instill positive family values in your children.
3) You need to teach your children important life lessons.
4) You need to build a stronger family unit.
All these things lead to one very important detail. By spending more quality time together as a family, you will build a stronger family unit. Your family will stick together through rough times, and enjoy fun times together as well.
Therefore, i really care of my loving family and hoping that we will get to together here after.
Together with loving family at Gelora Beach Resort , Bachok, Kelantan
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