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Sunday, February 5, 2012

GELORA BEACH RESORT..spending worth time with family

"The most important work you and I will ever do will be within the walls of our own homes."

- Harold B Lee-



Family defined many words and meaning, either they live heritable or  adoptable, they were also family. How do it comes to harmony and peaceful family if it was not about love. Some people fall in love before they got married and some feel it after marriage. It was nothing to discuss if it was before, but the most important relation that we must care is after marriage. I got so many information about family in my Family Law subject. There were many understanding that my friends shared in class. 

Some says, family is a unit of people who lived together  that had blood link such as grandfather, grandmother, father, mother and children. however, some group object and says that, if they were adopted or live in welfare institution, they were also live in family. 
This question bring me to search, so i found in wikipedia: 
family (from Latinfamilia) is a group of people affiliated by consanguinity, affinity or co-residence.

however, there were some family could not control and solve their family problem and decided easily to get divorce. don't they think of other people? children, father or mother in law? is divorce is the right solution for family problem? no, i totally not agree. There must be many solution for this and if they had tried all this, i then agree for it. As a counseling student, i and my friends were given so many cases to solve and most of teenagers or adolescent who get involved in criminal or social problem comes from those who had a family problem.  so, to cared of harmony life and happy family, we have to strengthen our bond of love. Family is the small and easy unit to be control compared to a  villager or society. So, if we able to have a happy family, we will be a part of peaceful citizen and live in  harmony life.

our Prophet had mentioned about "dovorce"  in His hadith :


Matan Abu Daud
حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ عَنْ مُعَرِّفِ بْنِ وَاصِلٍعَنْ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ دِثَارٍ عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَقَالَ أَبْغَضُ الْحَلاَلِ إِلَى اللهِ تَعَالَى الطَّلاَقُ.
Artinya: Kami (Abu Daud) mendapatkan cerita dari Kasir bin Ubaid; Kasir bin Ubaid diceritakan oleh Muhammad bin Khalid dari Muhammad bin Khalid dari Mu’arraf in Washil dari Muharib bin Ditsar; dari Ibnu Umar dari Nabi SAW yang bersabda:”Perkara halal yang paling dibenci Allah adalah perceraian.”


4 Reasons Why You Need Family Time

Maybe the reason why you can’t seem to find time to spend with your family is because you don’t think it is that important. Maybe you have other things that you think are higher on your list of priorities. Here are just a few reasons why family time is important:
1) You need to build deeper relationships within your family
Family ties are important. I’ve often heard it said that the reason why so many kids decide to join gangs are because they welcome them in and become part of a family. Your children need to feel like they belong. They need to feel like they have someone they can turn to, for anything. Spending time together as a family ensures that deep, strong, family bond.
2) You need to instill family values in your children. 
With the startling numbers of marriages and divorces today, your children need to learn the importance of family values. Chances are, your children will mimic the exact behaviors you exhibit towards them. If you are an absent parent, they will be the same to their children in the future. More often than not, children often display worse behaviors than were shown to them. Spending family time together will build a sense of worth and instill positive family values in your children.
3) You need to teach your children important life lessons.
 Whatever your child does not learn at home, you can be assured they will learn elsewhere. Do you want your children to learn important life lessons by having to experience pain? Of course, they will have to learn some things on their own. But it is so important to have time for family discussion, wherein you can lay problems or situations on the table, then talk about them with your children.
4) You need to build a stronger family unit. 
All these things lead to one very important detail. By spending more quality time together as a family, you will build a stronger family unit. Your family will stick together through rough times, and enjoy fun times together as well.

Therefore, i really care of my loving family and hoping that we will get to together here after.




Together with loving family at Gelora Beach Resort , Bachok, Kelantan 




"In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony"





these are some valuable website as reference for this topic :

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

SMARTLEADERS CAMP

last week, on 21st of January 2012
a great team (SeLKS and SIFE ) get together..
under one roof..stand in one group..
at ANUGERAH ALAM CAMP


host by 
Pusat Pembangunan Keusahawanan Siswa (USIM)
organized by
Lang Buana Edu.Rec. Centre

we go through the camp with many excitement activities, as Capten Shaharudin (papa) told us :
"we give u an experiences learning not class learning"

There were so many activities that encourage us to be in a team, being together in thick and thin. we have to think for our team achievement, not only ourselves.
for instance, 
1. Compass Bearing slot
I learn on how to read a compass and how to lead the group in a right path. so, in applying to my life, I learn..i should think first before decide some action or decision. Choosing the right path would lead me to be a great person in the future.

  
then, there were other activities, such as
-dice exploration
-blind leader
-muhasabah
-survival
-khidmat masyarakat
-water obstacle













 last day, we also done our own performance and trademark.


 BBQ time..



 That's all from me. I hope to improve myself in the future. What do i really hope, SeLKS and SIFE get together in any difficulties and I hope this team able to organize a gig program to contribute USIM's name as one of popular name in the future. aminnn..

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

some sharing about my ancestor.. BANJAR PEOPLE (chp 1)

INTRODUCTION

Japan looks to Malaysia for its uniqueness and multiculturalism. Japan wants to learn how Malaysians from different ethnic backgrounds and cultures are able to live together harmoniously. As mentioned by Japanese Ambassador to Malaysia Masahiko Horie, “Japan should have a “Look West Policy”, in reference to Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad’s “Look East Policy”. He said a “Look West Policy” did not mean Japan would look to the Western nations but to Malaysia for its uniqueness and strengths in promoting racial harmony.
This is the reason that encourages me to learn this cross-cultural counseling and complete this task to interview the person who came from different culture, language and heritage. There are varieties of cultures, races, ethnics, and lifestyle in Malaysia.  This uniqueness encourages me to deeply understand this subject and complete this task as my assignment.
A special thank you and appreciated to Prof Madya Datin Dr Hajah Sapora Sipon for her teaching and sharing for this Cross-Cultural Subject (ABA  4033) for this semester. For me, this is an interesting subject and gives me a great impact to get to know our Malaysian culture and also western culture, custom, language and belief.

I had done an interview with fifth generation of Indonesian Native that had migraine to Malaysia with their family at Bagan Serai, Perak. He is, Mr Ahmad Shukri Bin Hj Othman who is the fifth generation of Banjar decent. He was born on 1st of January 1965 at Bagan Serai, Perak. Bagan Serai was located at the end of Perak near to Parit Buntar.

HISTORY OF BANJAR PEOPLE

Malaysian society is known with varieties of citizen such as varieties of ethnics, races, culture, custom, beliefs and also interest. Then, talking about ethnics, one of those ethnics groups that exist in Malaysia is Banjar people. Like other ethnic groups, Banjar people had their uniqueness and their own history in this country.


 Banjar people is one of Malay ethnics as same as Jawa people who were migration from Indonesia. They also live near to each other, such as Balik Papan (Johor), regional Sabak Bernam and Tanjung Karang (Selangor) and Bagan moreDatoh at Perak district However, Jawa people more well-known in Malaysia compared to Banjar people.Their contribution in the field of social, economic, political and especially the Malay race in this country were also important for the development of this country.

1.    Origin of Banjar people

Banjar people who came to Malaya were from Kalimantan, Indonesia, in the southern Basin Barito, especially from the Salt Banjar district, the downtown area. This area is located in the southeastern Borneo. Banjar people came from different part of Kalimantan State of Indonesia such as Amed areas, AmuntaiI, Alai, Hamandit, Margasari and Bantul. Some of them also come from Central Sumatra in Bukit Tinggi and Sepat. Their lives resources are are the cultivation of rice. 



Thus, those who migrated to Malaya had a skilled as a farmer in paddy cultivation. In addition, they were also expert in specific jobs such as painting, jewels art and business. Their jobs differentiate them from other nation’s tribes in the area of ​​the Dayak people who live further to the north west of the Salt Banjar. This community was also known as people who had the ability to make tools of iron, such as agricultural tools and weapons. Most of them prefer to stay in the valley of several rivers such as along the Banjar valley of Salt Rantep to Asuntai and the Cape in the north.

According to the history experts, there was no exactly date of their migration to the Malay community.however, according to a researcher Hudson Bacon Afred, this migration began in the mid-19th century. The earliest settlements were detected in Balikpapan, Johor. At that time, they often commute and trade copra through the Siak, Bentan, Inderagiri directly to Balikpapan and Singapore. Apart from Bagan Datoh in Perak is also said to be early place for this community in Malaya. In Balikpapan, they were split into other areas. 

Here, they were practice the same skills that they got from Indonesia, such as, farming activities, gardening, rubber tapper and others. At present, Banjar society can be found in several parts of the west coast, especially in rice growing areas (paddy field areas) in the district, River Beads and Bagan Datoh in Perak, Sabak Bernam and Tanjong Karang in Selangor and Johor Balikpapan. In Sabah, the Banjar in Sandakan, Tenom, Keningau and Tawau. This Banjar people are divided into several tribes and among the largest in the Cape and Kalua of the Amed area, Amuntai from district Amuntai, Barabai of Alai district, Nagara and Kandangan from Hamandit district, region of Margasari and Bantul district of Bantul district. Society is often identifying themselves by regions of origin in this land.

 In addition for the commercial factors, the poverty that gripped the lives of the Banjar people at Indonesia also drove the migration to Malaya. Their condition in Banjar land is difficult because they often face the threat of wild animals. They also impressed with the prosperity of life in Malaya at that time proclaimed by the traders who commute to Malaya. 

Instead of that, the misery faced under Dutch colonial rule is too oppressive for local community with a variety of taxes and unreasonable regulation. The British colonial government in Malaya was very encouraging the migration of people from Indonesia to open and work the new agricultural areas for the community is famous for its strong and persistent nature of the challenges of life.


2.    Origin of Mr.Ahmad Shukri family

According to the interview session, Mr Ahmad Shukri was the fifth generation in his family from his ancestors who came from Indonesia. His father told him that his grandfather of his father comes to a open a place and area that was called as Bagan Serai. Most of the people who were staying at Bagan Serai, Perak now were Banjar descent. They were all mostly were relatives and have blood ties because they come from a group of family who came to get their safety and peaceful place to stay. His father’s name was Hj.Othman and his mother’s name is Siti Aisyah.

Hj. Othman had five siblings and they were all stayed at Masjid Tinggi, a name of one place in Bagan Serai . In a while, Hajah Aisyah, his mother had nine siblings that also stayed at Bagan Serai. This spouse was given 14 children and one of them is Mr Ahmad Shukri who was the ninth in his siblings.

Although he is the fifth generation from the first generation who step their foot in Malaysia, he still practicing the language and apply the Banjar’s tradition and culture. For instance, ada kenduri ( ada aroh ), sedapnya (nyaman), tidur (guring) and many more words. He also practices the language with his primary schools’ friends and his relatives. He also told me that, there were many Banjarian people who stayed in Malaysia in different part and state in this country. So, if they met each other, they will be close using their same language. They will call those people who were Banjarian as “Kulaan”.

I had ask Mr Ahmad Shukri either he felt shame using those language in front of other people, but he just smiling. He said, they will talk in common language if they were with citizen and will only use the language if they were in family, friends or other person who used those languages. “Nowadays, it is hard to find the people who able to speak Banjar and it would be happy if we can speak it in front of many people or our descent”, he added.

Moreover, there was some culture that would be a must for them if they attend a wedding ceremony.  Each of the villagers who come and attend the ceremony would bring one “mangkuk tingkat” that filled with some “beras” and sugar to give it to the “tuan rumah”. They call the “mangkuk tingkat” as “rantang”. Banjarian showed their cooperation in doing the ceremony when they were helping each other to cook the dishes and prepared the bridge or bridegroom together. After the ceremony end, everybody will bring back their “rantang” as it was filled in with the dishes from the wedding ceremony. Their children were waiting at home for their parent to bring back the “rantang” to them.

I had ask him on how the wedding had been held and is there any custom different compared to Malay custom. However, he just said that, there were no difference between Malay and Banjar people wedding culture. It was the same if it is about “berinai”, “ bersanding” and “makan beradab” ceremony.

Most of the villagers at Bagan Serai were farmer. They had their own paddy field as their life resources.  Their lives depend on rice as a source of food and income sources. They were working on rice fields on a large scale and sell the rice in a factory nearby. So, since in the early years, he had been ordered to pick up the paddy Those Banjarian people were all muslim and they will pray at mosque that called masjid Tinggi Bagan Serai.

The most interesting story that Mr Ahmad Shukri was the time he was child, he had been punished by his father not get in home if he did not want to recite Al-Quran. Hj Othman is one Quran teacher in the village. So, to shed by his father he climbs a tree at the back of his house. His father is very strict if it was about education and Islamic learning. Therefore, all of his 14 siblings were succeed in their life. Some were working as a lecturer at UKM, Education district, Teacher, and also businessman.


Sunday, June 19, 2011

...................HATI INI MILIK SIAPA.....

dalam melayari bahtera khdpn yg pnuh pancaroba
terlalu berat dugaan yg haru ku tempuh..
pelbagai rona hidup masyarakat yg ku hadapi..
ku terkadang dah tak mampu menahan semua ini bersendiri lagi..
namun,
ku tidak mampu menentang takdir Ilahi..
hati ini memang perlukan teman
walaupun ku tidak berkehendakkannya..
kerna mengharap hanya Allah diriMu teman terbaik
hati ini milik siapa..
ku teruskan tnpa sesiapa disisi..
gapai impian n minat dengan gemilang
capai kebahagiaan dengan pangkat dan pujian
tapi..hati ini masih resah n gelisah..
walaupun ku tak lupa bersyukur n bersujud padaNya..
pabila usia meningkat dewasa..
hatiku mula bahagia
kerna ku tahu..impian yg ingin digapai semakin hampir ke genggaman..
semakin mudah utk di capai
sebagai hadiah buat ibu bapa tercinta
namun..
setelah semuanya digapai mudah..
hati ini masih terasa kekurangan..
seperti ada ruang kosng yg blum terisi..


hati ini milik siapa...
masih tiada jwapan di penghujungnya..
masih blum ada tnda2 utk ia terbuka
bukan kerna memilih..
namun, 
kerna harapkan yg terbaik..
yg mampu membimbingku menggapai satu lagi cinta yang hakiki..
mencari yg menasihati dan bukan memuji..
mengejar yg hakiki dan kekl abadi
suakrnya..aduhai..


hati ini milik siapa
dah ramai yg berani menghampiri..
dah rampai mengukir jnji
sangup hidup semati..
walau hnya atas dasar teman n kawan..
tapi mengapa hati ini masih tidak boleh dibuka
buat mereka yg buatku bahagia..
hilng sedih n luka..
akhirnya sedikit masa ku muhasbah..
apakah aturan buatku kelak..
adakah aku layak utk dia..
adakah dia akan menemaniku n membimbingku
adakah aku tidak akan brsma siapa..
truk sgtkah diriku dihadapannya..
hati ini milik siapa
Ya Allah..berikanlah aku petunjuk
berkanku kekuatan
berikanku kebahagiaan
berikanku kebahagiaan
dalam menggapai impian 
cita-cita dan cita
dengan redha dan rahmat dariNya
dan mg disaat itu adalah saat yg terbaik 
utkku dan dia
menggapai cinta ke syurga

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Rezki dan Limpah RahmatNya sntiasa ada bwt hamba2NYa..

Alhamdulillah..Rezki dan Limpah RahmatNya sntiasa ada bwt hamba2NYa....
syukurku ke hadrat Ilahi..kerna masih diberi plwg utk menghirup udara segar, menikmati keindahan n kasih sayang..n masih diberi plg mmhon keampunan..


andai kita masih sihat bekerja...sangatlah syukurlah..
andai kita sudah sedikit lemah dan tua.....syukurlah..
andai kita sudah tidak mmpu berjalan n menulis...syukurnya..
andai kita hanya mmpu menghirup udara sgr semata..tnpa berplwg melihat alam fauna lagi....betapa bersyukurnya kita di kurniakan peluang ini...


kerna sudah ramai di akhir usia dunia ini yg leka..
kerna sudah ramai di akhir usia dunia ini yg alpa..

akan siapa mereka..
untuk apa dicipta..
kemanakah arah tujuan..

alangkah runtunnya hati ini..pabila terdengar laungan ALLAHU AKBAR..2..
namun sukarnya melihat mereka yg menyahutnya serta merta..
malah diriku jg terkadang alpa..dengan kesibukan dunia..
entah apa yg dikejari..

kata orang :
"bekerjalah seperti kita akan hidup slmnya..n beribadahlah seperti kita akan pergi esok tnpa tnda"
namun...
hari ini lebih ramai yg memilih utk yg prtma..n trtgl yg kedua..
"Ya Allah..bukakanlah pintu hati hamba-Mu ini..keluargaku n sahabat2 ku agar sntiasa trbuka utk mnerima hdyah n ptunjukMu.."

gentar hatii ini pabila trdengar bicara ilmiah di tv9..
dalam prgram "tanyalah ustaz"
1 hari di akhirat..1000 tahun di dunia..snggupkah kita mnunggu terlalu lm..nak tgu habis sehari di duniapn dah tak larat..inikan pulapunya pnjangya 1000 hari didunia..barulah cukup 1 hari..
dahsyat n keperitan di qubur tak terkira..
menggu pula di padang mahsyar...
kita dah ummah akhir zaman..maka giliran kita..
dalam golongn akhir..nak tgu bp juta thun dengan siksaan pns n seksa dosa ketika itu..mmg tak tertnggung dek kita..andai siapa pn rasanya..
tak kiralah dia seorng sultan, pm, tan sri, dato, prof, dr, atau  sesiapapun yg brjwtn
takkan mmpu menukarnya dgn wang lagi
dah tak boleh nak merasuah lagi..
dah tak boleh nak bergaya n dedah aurat supaya ramai yg akan tertarik lagi..

dah lama sgt ana tak mencoret n brkgsi ilmu yg diperolah..
Alhamdulillah..masih terpnggil..
wlwpn ana hnya insan hina tak brmaya..
tak reti bermain kata dan mencoret tinta berhikmah..
namun, ku mohon pd-Mu Ya Allah..agar masih dibukakan hati penulis n pmbaca coretan biasa ini..

hanya 7 golongn yg akan terlepas dari azab Allah..
adakah kita tergolong darinya?
mati dan ajal..tidak mengira usia..tp saat kematian kita adalah diambil kira
sama ada ketika itu kita beribadah@bermaksiat..
ana jg tak lari dr dosa..
Ya Allah..ampunkanlah dosa2ku..

andai kita terlepas dari azab..
Alhamdulillah..betapa brsyukrnya kita
andai tmbgn baik kita bnyk..tp ada jg dosa..
kita tetap akan dicelup di neraka..
kecuali dengan syafaat baginda..bagi hamba2Nya yg sntiasa brzkir pdNya..
andai timbngan kita sama bnyak baik n tak baik..
maka tiadalah tmpt utk kita..

Ya Allah, aku masih sgt bersyukur pdMu..wlwpn pelbagai ujian telah Kau datangkn, namun Kau taklupa kurniakan ku rezki dan limpah rahmatMu yang melimpah2 buat hamba2Nya..


nukilan ku ini tak seberapa..maafkan andai ku tersalah kata..ku hnya insan berdosa yg sntiasa mgharapkan keampunanNya..agar ku juga berplwg di syurga..

Monday, December 20, 2010

masa tak berlalu sendir, tapi kita yang mengawalnya..

 
asslamualaikum..ya akhi wa ukhti fillah..
salam sayang dan salam bahagia buat diri anda...
moga sentiasa dibawah rahmat Allah selalu..

masa tak berlalu sendir, tapi kita yang mengawalnya

ana tak pasti adakah ada orang yang akan bersetuju dengan ayat ana td
tp hakikatnya adalah begitu
andai kita ingin dapatkan yg terbaik untuk masa depan kita
kita harus aturkan masa kita dengan perkara yg baik
but sometimes..
most people failed to achieve it because of many reason..
but there still other people who are able to achieve success..
so, why don't we be one of them?
why didn't we face the obstacles with patience, faith on Allah, strive n tawakkal?
there, I trust that we can do it..
I'll continue this writing when i got a time..
ana cuma mencuri masa yg ada sementara menunggu anak-anak permata insan belajar komputer..
there's so many thing that I eager to share it with u all but It's hard for me to arrange my time with so many activities..but Thanks Allah that I still able to fullfill my lifespan with so many beneficial thing..hoping still be in the future



Wednesday, June 23, 2010

..TERIMA KASIH ABI...



Warkah penulisan ini mengubah sedikit cara pnyampaian ana..

sengaja ana teringin menyentuh hati yang kagum dan bersyukur dengan kehadiran seorang insan bergelar abi. abi didefinisi sebagai bapa@ayah dalam bahasa melayu..
 Hj Ahmad Shukri b Hj Othman insan yang memang kukagumi dan betapa ana hargai kehadiranmu abi. Terimbas pelbagai kenangan indah bersama mu dan pengorbanan seorang bapa. Kasih mu abi tiada tandingan, kasih mu umi membawa ke syurga..syurgaku hanya dengan berkat doa dan didikan kalian..terima kasih umi abi.

SELAMAT HARI BAPA.
ku ukir kata buat insan yang bergelar abi. namun bagiku, hari bapa bukanlah sehari, tapi berhari-hari..
kalau dikirakan..dari 2004 hingga kini..dah 6 tahun abi berulang alik dari perka ke Kelantan..
tapi, apakan daya..kuasa perukaran seorang guru bukanlah terletak ditangan sendiri..sumanya hak KPM..itulah pengorbanan seorng guru..bahkan andai disingkap, pengorbanan seorng guru memang tiada bandingnya..pengorbanan mereka dalam memndidik dan membimbing untuk melihat kejayaan anak murid. kadang-kadang boleh ku tafsirkan, lebih guru dari murid. begitulah tugasan umi n abi ku..meniti hari yang berlalu dengan tabah, abi masih tabah menunggu...saat pertkaran yang entah bila akan diluluskan..agaknya kena tgu pencen kot..dahla berulang alik berseorangan setiap minggu, masalah kesihatan abi juga, amat merisaukan. mengharapkan pada ubat selalu, lelah yang datang tanpa mengira masa..aku begitu risau. Namun, pengorbanan seorang bapa memang tida bandingnya. Kesabaran abi dalam mendidik yong and adik2 memang tiada bandingnya. nak harapkan tinggi suara pun tidak, apatah lagi memukul dan rotan. abi memang cukup penyayang. teringat juga kisah kenakalanku semasa di zaman sekolah, ku pulang ke rumah terus selepas selesai PMR, esoknya guru di sekolah menghubungi, rupanya masih ada oral@ujian lisan yang masih belum diselesaikan..aduh, kena balik sorang. abi risaukan anak perempuannya pulang berseorangan, terpaksalah abi memohon cuti utk mengahntar aku, terpaksalah beli tiket pergi balik utk abi..sudahlah nak mask sekolah, dimarahi guard kerana datang pada awal pg, marahnya kerana mengganggu tidurnya yg lena. Masuk sahaja aku di pintu asrama sekolah, abi dikehendaki pulang,kemanakah haluan abi seawal jam 3pg, aku tidak tahu..ini suma salah aku.esoknya kuhubungi rumah, umi mengangkat gagang..rupanya abi lelah di perjalanan.
mungkin cukup sekadar perkongsian disini, andai disuruh menulis, takut tertukar dengan novel pulak.tp itulah hakikat, kasih dan pengorbanan ibu dan bapa kita memang tiada tandingan, kadang2 ada yang agak garang, kadang2 ada yang pendiam, kadang2 ada yg pandai melawak..tp walau sp pun dia..dia adalah seorang ayah yang tiada tukar ganti.walau apa pun reaksi ayah@abi@bapa..ia tetap bermakna..HE LOVES US..
Flower Pictures
maaf andai penulisan ini agak pelik..bukan berniat ingin berkongsi pengalaman yang entah apa, tp sekadar mengingatkan..bukan semua diantara kita masih berpeluang merasa kasih dan sayang seorang bapa..malah ada yang kini memegang peranan menggantikan bapa yang telah pulang ke Rahatullah..tiada siapa akan menyangka..ajal kan sampai bila..hargailah ibu dan bapa kita..selagi mereka masih bersama..JANGAN LUPA DOAKAN mereka...umi n abi..ibu n bapa..itu sahaja akan menyelamatkan dan memberikan bahagia pd mereka sama ada di dunia@akhirat. doa anak yang soleh penghubung bahagia..

sahabat sekalian..lihatlah hadis nie..
Maksudnya: "Daripada Muawiyah bin Haidatal Qusyairi katanya aku bertanya Rasulullah SAW, siapakah orang yang paling patut aku berbuat baik?, Rasulullah SAW menjawab : ibumu, kemudian aku bertanya lagi siapa?, Rasulullah menjawab : ibumu, kemudian aku bertanya lagi siapa? Rasulullah menjawab: ibumu, kemudian aku bertanya lagi siapa? Rasulullah menjawab : bapamu, kemudian orang yang paling hampir denganmu dan seterusnya".


(Hadis Riwayat at-Tirmizi).

namun begitu, ana masih ada isu yang ingin dikongsi..maklumat ini ana ambil dari garis panduan menyambut hari bapa rujukan dari mufti selangor..maka, perlukah ada hari bapa sedangkan pada dasarnya, kisah sambutan utk hari2 tertentu adalah berkisar ada kisah2 tertentu..fikirkanlah..namun bg ana, tak salah utk kita meraikan ibu bapa kita, namun tak perlu diniatkan pada hari2 tertentu..hari bapa ialah hari kita memberikan kebahagiaan dan membantu mereka..maka dalam urusan membahagiakan dan membantu..perlukah ada masa2 tertentu? so?
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ni article yg ana copy..


Hari Bapa.
Sambutan hari bapa bermula di Amerika Syarikat dengan ideanya dicetuskan oleh seorang wanita, Sonora Dodd dari daerah Spokane. Beliau mahu sesuatu dilakukan untuk mengenang bapanya, William Smart, seorang veteran perang saudara yang ditinggalkan oleh isterinya dan membesarkan enam orang anak secara bersendirian di sebuah ladang kecil.
Hari bapa yang pertama disambut pada tahun 1910 dengan mengambil sempena tahun kelahiran William Smart sendiri.
Sejak tahun 1972, ia disambut setiap tahun apabila bekas Presiden AS, Richard Nixon menandatangani satu undang-undang awam yang menjadikan hari tersebut dicatat di dalam kalendar.

Tarikh yang diakui secara rasmi di berlainan negara.
Ahad ketiga bulan Jun
Amerika Syarikat, Afrika Selatan, Argentina, Bahamas, Bangladesh, Belanda, Bulgaria, Chile, China, Colombia, Costa Rica, Cuba, Cyprus,
Filipina, Greece, Guyana, Hong Kong, India, Ireland, Jamaica, Jepun, Kanada, Malaysia, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Pakistan, Panama, Paraguay, Perancis, Peru, Puerto Rico, Singapura, Slovakia, Sri Lanka, Switzerland, Trinidad dan Tobago, Turki, United Kingdom, Venezuela, Zimbabwe.
23 Jun
Nicaragua, Poland, Uganda.
30 Julai
Vietnam.
Ahad ketiga bulan Julai
Uruguay.
Ahad terakhir bulan Julai
Republik Dominican.
23 Mordad (bulan kelima kalendar Iran)
Iran.
Ahad kedua bulan Ogos
Brazil.
8 Ogos
Taiwan.
Ahad pertama bulan September
Australia, New Zealand.
Ahad kedua bulan November
Estonia, Finland, Norway, Sweden.
5 Disember
Thailand.
23 Februari
Belarus, Rusia, Ukraine.
19 Mac
Bolivia, Honduras, Itali, Liechtenstein, Portugal, Sepanyol.
5 Mei
Romania.
8 Mei
Korea Selatan.
Hari Ascension
Jerman.
Ahad pertama bulan Jun
Lithuania.
5 Jun (Hari Perlembagaan)
Denmark.
Ahad kedua bulan Jun
Austria, Belgium, Ecuador.
17 Jun
El Salvador, Guatemala.
Most Beautiful Pictures 10 - image of a northern mockingbird
 akhir kalam bicara,
Rasulullah SAW bersabda:

Maksudnya : " Tidak akan masuk syurga orang yang suka menunjuk-nunjuk pemberiannya, orang yang derhaka kepada kedua ibu bapanya dan orang yang ketagihan minuman keras. "
Sunan al-Nasai'

semoga abi panjang umur dan dimurahkan rezeki selalu..

terima kasih..datang lagi


inna solati..wa nusuki..


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